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I was the first of my family to come to the States, and one with the best English, landing an unenviable role of a designated problem solver.  Over the years I clocked countless hours wrestling with a mind-boggling array of near daily challenges, from from potentially life-changing Immigration Service screw-ups to botched medical and utility bills - all of which needed to be untangled, unwound, and unfucked.  I always knew I couldn't have been the only one wrestling with those issues, and wanted to share the knowledge - and have finally gotten around to it.  My hope is that this blog can be of help, but also entertain and even provoke discussion.

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